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​Deep calls unto deep at the noise of your waterfalls;
all your waves and billows have gone over me
psalm 42:7

a redirection of priorities

12/27/2020

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16 We know full well that we don’t receive God’s
perfect righteousness as a reward for keeping the law,
but by the faith of Jesus, the Messiah! His faithfulness, not ours,
has saved us, and we have received God’s perfect righteousness.
Now we know that God accepts no one by the keeping of religious laws!
                                                                        Galations 2:16

A few weeks ago, I had another one of those I need change right now moments. Naturally, that means I go get a haircut, get my ears pierced, change my wardrobe. This change, however, didn’t come from a place of impulse as it typically would in the past. This time I needed something drastic.
I needed immediate change.
 
Why?
I’ve abruptly come to the end of my yes road.
 
Saying yes is something I am good at. I have always prided myself in being able to “handle it”. I come from a long line of doers, people that can and will make it happen. It’s what we do.
 
I don’t know about you, but this yes road has brought me to a place of disgust with myself: an echoing emptiness in my chest that is louder than anything on this planet.
I can officially say with lungs that feel as though they are taking their first deep breath in ages – I’ve come to the end of that road.
 
At some point all of those yes’s start costing you something. When you say yes to one thing, you’re ultimately saying no to something else. In my case, this meant saying no to genuine connection to my husband, wonderful little in-between giggles with my child, and quiet moments with the Lord.
I wept the moment that I realized that my addiction to busyness willingly kept me from the beautiful, restorative rest that time with Jesus brings.
 
Yeshua, I need You! I’m sorry for choosing other things over You!
 
I’ve heard so many times that the dishes or the vacuuming or the laundry can wait, but my identity has been rooted in accomplishing so long that I chose not to listen.
But hearing my husband say something along the lines of, “having the dishes pile up is worth having you whole!” broke me. 
 
At the end of this road, I had recently found myself in a place of neglect. I wasn’t giving my body or my soul the care it needed, let alone the care my loved ones needed.
My journal entries looked something like:
Lord – I feel so unstable and empty!
My emotions are unmanageable, my mind is clouded, my spirit is suppressed and beat down. I need a revelation of the Father’s love!

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Luckily, when a voice shouts in an empty room, it echoes.
 
“Beloved, look at all of the things we get to do together!”
 
His words in my heart absolutely broke me.
 
You mean, You want to do things with me, Lord?
This life isn’t just me doing things for You?

​2 He makes me to lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters.
3 He restores my soul;
He leads me in the paths of righteousness
For His name’s sake.
                                    Psalm 23:2-3

And suddenly the classic Psalm 23 made sense...
           
When we can’t stop doing and moving and making it happen, He will make us lie down! This isn’t a forceful break-your-leg-type of thing, this is a I’m going to let her get completely sick of herself outside of Me until she gives it up-type of thing.
 
It took until writing this post to realize that you first have to come to the end of yourself, the end of doing the law in search of righteousness like Galatians 2 says, so that the restoration of Psalm 23:3 can happen.
Once you allow the Lord to lead you beside still waters, there is where He has permission to begin restoring the soul that you’ve emptied out before everyone and everything else. You cannot find the “path of righteousness” apart from His leading; it has to start beside the still waters.
 
Why Galations 2:16?
 
Religion tells you that you have to do, do, do, be, be, be enough by your works!
You’re never enough, so keep pushing and doing and trying harder!
I truly believe that this “religion” is the belief system that stems from not knowing who we belong to, who our Father is.
 
For so long I have functioned out of the place of saying yes to everyone so that I can look accomplished, like I have it all together, like I’m somebody.
But in all honesty, the fear of being disliked and rejected – the fear of disappointing anyone, at all - was the true driving force in my heart to never saying no.
 
If I make sure everyone is pleased with me, then I will feel loved and accepted!

18 Love never brings fear, for fear is always related to punishment.
But love’s perfection drives the fear of punishment far from our hearts.
Whoever walks constantly afraid of punishment has not reached love’s perfection.
                                                                                    1 John 4:18

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​To reach that place of being loved, of just being okay in our own skin,
we need to know who our Father is.
Yahweh isn’t a lofty, distant God who lets the chaos play out in hopes that we will all be okay one day.
He is a very involved Father who absolutely adores us!

​7 How precious is Your lovingkindness, O God!
Therefore the children of men put their trust
under the shadow of Your wings.
8 They are abundantly satisfied with the fullness of Your house,
And You give them drink from the river of Your pleasures.
                                          Psalm 36:7-8
 
17 How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God!
How great is the sum of them!
18 If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand;
When I awake, I am still with You.
                                                Psalm 139:17-18


We weren’t meant to do this alone.
Every chore, every errand, ever life-changing decision-
we were meant to do it with our Father.

 So this is what the end of my yes road looks like:
At the edge of His river.  
 
This is where I begin to slowly, sometimes painfully, say no to things that pull me from what He has called me to do.
 
And this is where I joyfully, clumsily, awkwardly begin to say yes to doing everything with Him
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